Privacy
What this site keeps, for how long, and who else sees it, in plain words.
Invitations
When you make an invitation, we keep what you put in it: the names, the date and times, the venue, a dress code, your message, the design you chose, any thank-you and photo link for after the event, and any photos or font you upload. We also keep the key to your private edit link, so only you can change or delete it, and a count of how often the invitation was opened. The count doesn't record who opened it.
Photos and fonts
Photos and uploaded fonts are stored as files with Vercel Blob. They are public files: anyone who has your invitation's link can see its photos, as on the invitation itself.
Guests' replies
When a guest replies, we keep their name, whether they're coming, how many are coming, their note, a song if the hosts asked for one, a shuttle stop if they offer shuttles, and the time. So that one device can't flood a card, we keep a one-way code made from the guest's internet address and the invitation. The address itself isn't kept. Only the couple, with their private link, can see the replies.
Your seating list
If you add a seating list on your replies page, we keep each guest's name and table with the invitation. Guests never see the list: a guest who types a name sees only that name's table, until the event is over. So that no one can guess names one after another, a name that isn't found is counted for an hour with a one-way code made from the internet address the lookup came from; the address itself isn't kept. You can remove the list from your replies page, and it is deleted with the invitation.
Your gift list
If you keep a list of gifts on your replies page, we keep each gift's giver, amount, how it came and your note with the invitation. Only you, with your private link, can see it. You can remove any gift, and the list is deleted with the invitation.
Personal links
If you send guests their own links from your guest list, each link carries the name you wrote, the seats you saved for them if you set any, and a short code your private link makes: the invitation greets them by the name, fills it in their reply card, and keeps the card to those seats. When a link is opened, we note its code with the invitation (not the name), so your replies page can show it was opened; the note is deleted with the invitation. The guest list you download from your replies page includes each guest's link.
Your contact for questions
If you add a contact for guests' questions (or two), their names and phone numbers are part of the invitation: everyone who has its link can see them, and its WhatsApp and call buttons open a chat or a call with that number. You can change or remove it from your private edit link.
The guests' album
If the hosts turn on the guests' album, guests can add photos to the invitation from the event's day on. Each photo is kept as a public file, like the invitation's own photos: anyone with the invitation's link can see it. So that one device can't flood the album, we keep a one-way code made from the internet address each photo came from, to count an hour's photos; the address itself isn't kept, and no one is shown who added a photo. The hosts can remove any photo from their replies page, and the album is deleted with the invitation.
On your own device
Your browser keeps a few things on your device only: the invitations you made here, with their private edit links; a draft of an invitation you haven't sent yet, with its design and photos; the replies you sent as a guest, so you can change them; when you last opened each replies page, to mark the replies that came since; and a guest list you paste on your replies page, with its names, phone numbers and seats. Clearing this site's data in your browser removes them.
Cookies and ads
This site sets one cookie of its own: the codes of the invitations whose envelope you've seen open in this browser, so it opens only the first time. It holds nothing else, and it goes only to this site. A guest's invitation page shows ads from Google AdSense once the invitation is more than a day old. Google and its partners may use cookies there to show ads based on your visits to this and other sites, and to measure them. You can turn off personalized ads in:
Google's ad settingsIdeas and problems you send
If you send us an idea or a problem from the editor, your message goes to our issue tracker, Linear, so we can read it and answer. With it go the email you add (if any), the page you sent it from, the invitation it's about, its language and the time.
Who runs it for us
The site runs on Vercel, which hosts it and stores its files, with a Neon database. Fonts are served from this site. The Google Calendar, Outlook, Waze, Google Maps and WhatsApp buttons, and a live stream the hosts link to, open those services only when you tap them. Opening the "Add to calendar" menu loads the Google Calendar and Outlook icons from Google and Microsoft.
How long we keep it
An invitation's link works until about three months after the event, and for at least a year after it was made; after that the invitation is no longer shown, and about a month later it is deleted, with its photos, replies and any font you uploaded. While the link works, you can delete an invitation, with its photos and replies, from your private edit link, and remove a single reply.
Questions
Hosts: write to us with "Ideas or problems?" at the top of the editor. Guests: ask the hosts; they can remove your reply from their replies page.
Updated November 2026.